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Sedona Method

4 programs that underlie feelings and behavior


Control Program

Attachment:
Wanting to control. Feels hard edged and pushy.  Synonyms for wanting to control: resistance, wanting to change, wanting to understand, to manipulate, to push, to fix, to force, to have it be our way, to be right, to make it happen, to coerce
Aversion:
Wanting to be controlled.  Feels like wanting to be taken care of, to have someone else do it or be in charge.  Synonyms: wanting to be confused, wanting to be manipulated, to give in, to be fixed, to be forced, to follow, to blame, to be the victim.

Approval Program

Attachment:
Wanting approval. Feels soft and ‘give me’ or needy.  Synonyms: wanting love, acceptance, admiration, caring, to be noticed, to be understood, to be stroked, to be nurtured, to be liked, to be acknowledged, appreciated.
Aversion:
Wanting disapproval. Feels rebellious and rejecting, sometimes spiteful.  Synonyms: wanting to be disliked, to be rejected, to be made wrong, to be misunderstood

Security/Survival Program

Attachment:
Wanting security.  Feels threatened and unsafe.  Synonyms: wanting safety, to survive, to get revenge, to protect ourselves and others, to attack, to defend, to kill.
Aversion:
Wanting to die. Feels like wanting to give up, rejecting life.  Synonyms: wanting danger, to end it all, to expose ourselves and others, to be attacked, to be defenseless, to be threatened, to be killed.


Separation Program

Attachment:
Wanting to be One.  Feels like wanting to connect or dissolve into.  Synonyms: wanting to unite, to be equal with, to be ordinary, to attach, to associate, to join, to connect
Aversion:
Wanting to be separate.  Feel like wanting to pull away and reject.  Synonyms: wanting to be alone, to reject, to look down on, to stand out, to be special, to detach, to disassociate, to disconnect.

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